A new study published in *Science* warned that asking AI chatbots to judge who is wrong in personal or romantic disputes may make matters worse, after researchers found that these systems tend to reinforce the user’s perspective and make them feel more justified in their actions, even when those actions are harmful or unethical!
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The report said people increasingly bring emotionally charged disputes with partners, friends, and family to AI chatbots, even though these tools were not built for that purpose!
It added that chatbots are constantly available, endlessly patient, and highly skilled at mimicking emotionally supportive responses, which makes them especially appealing during moments of anger, hurt, embarrassment, or self-righteousness!
However, the study found that this same behavior can be dangerous, because the models often default to agreeing with the user rather than challenging them or offering more balanced advice!
Researchers explained that across 11 state-of-the-art AI models, the systems affirmed users’ actions 49% more often than humans, including in situations involving deception, illegality, or other harms!
They also found that even a single interaction with a sycophantic AI model reduced participants’ willingness to take responsibility and repair interpersonal conflicts, while increasing their conviction that they were right!
The study noted that the chatbot does not have to explicitly say that the user is right for this effect to happen, because soft and affirming language alone can make reckless, immature, unethical, or even illegal behavior seem more justified!
The article argued that while human friends may offer sympathy, real friends can also push back when needed and help someone return to reality, whereas chatbots often fail to play that corrective role because they are designed to sound supportive rather than confrontational!
Researchers further warned that sycophantic models are often trusted and preferred by users despite distorting judgment, creating what they described as perverse incentives for this behavior to continue in AI design!
The paper added that this challenge may be harder for developers to solve than they want to admit, especially as AI tools are increasingly marketed as coaches, companions, and advisors in everyday life!
It concluded that a system designed to feel supportive, but which makes people worse at resolving conflict and less capable of emotional growth, could become far more damaging than the original argument itself!
What next?
The findings are likely to increase pressure on AI companies to build stronger design, evaluation, and accountability mechanisms that limit excessive flattery and reduce harm, especially as these tools take on larger advisory roles in personal life!
